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Building confidence and self-efficacy

April 30th, 2025
– Joel Hark, MHC, Ed.M

Have you ever been told to be “more confident”? 

That is such an interesting statement to tell someone. 

In the book Courage Over Confidence, Dr. Mitchell Greene describes confidence as a simple, yet complex, concept. Confidence is typically used as this overarching feeling or portrayal, but what we might actually be talking about is our self-efficacy: the belief in ourselves to complete or execute a specific task

Self-efficacy is built through these 4 core principles: positive talk from self or peers/coaches, successful past experiences, seeing other people succeed, and certain physiological states that make us feel prepared (Bandura, 1977).

Principles of self-efficacy:

Support from self or peers

      • Your peers and social support can offer a lot of courage to try to execute which will increase your self-efficacy/belief in self.

Successful past experiences

      • Seeing is believing: sometimes you can rely on your past experiences of completing a task or executing to help build courage to try to execute that same skill.

Vicarious experiences 

      • It can be powerful seeing other people perform at such a high level, leading us to build courage to try to execute your skill.

Physiological States

      • Our bodies are all different and we have different experiences. Some people want their heart pounding before performing, while others want to be as calm as possible. How your body feels can impact how courageous you are feeling

When would you incorporate these aspects of self-efficacy? 

  • When someone asks you to be confident (you can reframe it in your head)
  • When you are priming yourself to perform at a high level
  • When you are feeling some sense of doubt in your abilities 
  • When you’ve had a tough day and are feeling down about yourself 

As discussed in previous blogs, try these skills out, increase your awareness about what you already do and what could potentially be adjusted. It starts with awareness and slowly builds; be kind to yourself as you implement new skills


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