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Reframing thoughts – Why is it important?

April 6th, 2025

Courtney Chapman, LICSW

Do you ever catch yourself thinking negatively about yourself? How often do you notice this? Are you able to get yourself out of this negative thought pattern when you see this happening? Sometimes we don’t catch ourselves thinking negatively, or if we do, it can be difficult to move on from our negative thoughts. This is why the skill of reframing is so important to practice and use.

What is reframing? Reframing is a tool that is used in cognitive behavioral therapy to change a person’s perspective on themselves or a situation. The purpose of reframing is for an individual to identify and challenge negative self-talk with the replacement of neutral or positive thinking. The skill of reframing takes time and practice especially when the negative thoughts have been in our train of thinking for a longer period of time. 

Some examples of negative self-talk may include “I am a failure,” “I am not good enough,” “I will never be satisfied with my body,” etc. These thoughts can either be conscious or subconscious depending on the situation and how we respond to them. Examples of reframing for the prior negative self-talk statements may include “I made a mistake but I can learn from it,” “I am good enough now,” “I am learning to accept my body for how it is,” etc.

The process of reframing includes three core steps: 

1. Identify and acknowledge the thought

a. Don’t judge yourself for having this thought

b. Be aware of emotions and behaviors connected to the thought

2. Check the facts around the thought

a. Is there evidence to support this thought?

3. Replace the negative thought with a neutral or positive thought

a. Write down the negative thought with a neutral or positive reframe

b. Utilize grounding skills

c. Practice self-compassion

The thought record below is an easy way to practice the steps above for reframing.

Reframing may be a simple technique to use, but it is not easy. It may feel silly and ingenuine at first, but the more time and effort you put into practicing, the more instinctual and effective it will become. By making reframing into a habit, you will notice yourself picking up on negative cues more frequently and then replacing them with more helpful and supportive thoughts and self-statements that will put you into a more positive frame of mind.


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